All members of a household hold a responsibility to be financially reliable. But for a wife, it is crucial. One of my very favorite scriptures is Proverbs 31:10-31 and it lays it out very clear on what we are to do as the woman of the household.
Proverbs 31:10-31New International Version (NIV)
Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character
10 [a]A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
What does this have to do with budgeting? Well, it pretty much puts it right there in black and white, we are to manage our households. Not by wasting, being lazy, nagging, passing blame or wasting away funds on frivolous things, or adorning ourselves in the latest of fashions.
This is a pretty big responsibility over all, if you think about it. The world tells us all these pretty little lies to get us to spend when in reality, we are to be mindful and manage wisely. Our beauty comes from within and from honest work and care and wisdom.
Here are some things to be aware of and put into practice:
- Think first, never impulsively. Is the item a Want or is it a Need?
- If it is a need, what is the priority? Be honest, talk about it with your spouse or accountability partner.
- Save that change. I use an old coffee can that I throw my pennies and change in, it does add up! (Plus I use it for weekly egg money to pick up our fresh eggs.)
- Plan your meals!!!! It really doesn’t take long, meal prepping will become a habit in no time.
- Plan at least 2 weeks in advance work your way up to a month at a time.
- Cut down on quick runs to the grocery store.
- Meal Prep
- Buy in bulk in season and learn to freeze, can and dry food.
- USE COUPONS! Now days it’s fairly easy to use apps on your phones. My favorite is ibotta!
- Go to https://ibotta.com/
- Download the app for your phone.
- Feel free to use my referral code: phjhroe
- Earn cash that you can put in your account from coupons, and shopping you have to do.
- Resale! Whether buying or downsizing! Use the MarketPlace app on Facebook or go to your local resale shop!
- Plan a No Spend Month! I will be writing more on this in the future.
- Choose to fix meals at home instead of eating at restaurants or fast food. Your body and your wallet will thank you!
- You don’t need a gym!!! Find activities that keep you active that you enjoy! Walk, bike, fish, garden… you get the idea.
- Buy Local and find your local farmer’s markets. You are helping them, they are helping you.
- Use your talents to bring in extra money. I love etsy.com! Do you cook? Crochet? Knit? Sew? Write? Garden?
- Cut the cable cord! There are many ways you can spend your time without the TV, but if you do need it, antennas and internet can fill that void. In the meantime, enjoy a board game with your spouse and or kids.
- Make it a goal to be “God Sufficient”. Meaning, don’t put the priorities of the world before the priorities of the Lord.
- Most of all, pass these down to your children and your children’s children. Give them the wisdom of how to budget and be responsible to avoid the pitfalls of being foolish.
Until Next Time,
Mrs. Kay L. Rice